Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Our love story...



1. How long have you and your significant other been together?

We have been together almost 12 years.


2. How did you meet? {What's your "love" story?}

When I was a Jr in college my best friend from elementary school and I were living together.  I had recently bought a computer and was in a chat room talking when this young Marine sent me a message.  We started talking and soon realized that his child hood best friend and my roommate were actually cousins.  We talked on the phone that night, and made plans for him to come home that weekend and we would go on a date (his hometown was about an hour from where I lived and he was stationed at MCAS Beaufort).  Two days after we started talking he called to tell me he was on the way home because his mom had been hit by a drunk driver and was in serious condition, and they did not know if she would make it.  He came to see me late that night and we have pretty much been together ever since.  We met in April, got engaged in June, and were married August 18, 2000, 18 days after he was honorably discharged from the Marines.
3. If married, how long have you been married? If not, is this the guy you hope to marry? {do tell}

12 years in August

4. If you are married, where did you get married at? Big or small wedding? If not, where would you like to get married? And will it be big or small?

VERY small, we eloped just the two of us to Helen, Ga


5. Do you have any nick-names that you call one another? Do share!

I have all kinds of names for him, haha, the nice ones are Babe and Ryan-o.

6. Name 3 things you love most about your honey.

1. He loves me unconditionally, even with all my craziness!
2. He is a great father and loves our children.
3. He is man that loves God.


7. Tell us how he proposed? Or your ideal proposal?

We were coming back from a family reunion at the lake and were driving down the interstate.  He pulled over on the side of the road (at night) and asked me to get out and dance with him.  I thought he was CRAZY, but I did it anyway.  We danced to "Your Everything" by Keith Urban.  Then he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him, and I grabbed my ring before I finally said yes!

8. Is he a flowers and teddy bear kind of guy for v-day, or strawberries, champagne, and rose petals?

Neither, he used to give me a rose for every year we have been together, but I told him I would rather have the money to buy other things.  Since this year would be a dozen roses I am kinda hoping I will get surprise at work,
9. Are you a sunset dinner on the beach kind of girl, or pop a movie in and relax on the couch?

Sunset dinner on the beach, LOVE the beach!!

10. Tell us one thing you'd like to do with your significant one day. If you could do anything? Go anywhere?

Not really sure, I love to go on road trips with him, have never flown myself. If I could work up the nerve to fly I would love to go to Hawaii.

11. Tell us what you plan on doing on this Valentine's Day.

Nothing on the actual day, but we are going out Sat. night, and he is surprising me.

12. Are you asking for anything this Valentine's day?

I want some Sanuks, I am in love with them!!

13. Give us one piece of advice of keeping a relationship strong and full of love.

COMPROMISE!!! At first we were not very good at that, but as the years have gone on we have learned to compromise and go with the flow. It's just not worth it sometimes to fight over the little stuff.

14. Show us a picture of what love means to you.

Friday, June 18, 2010

Life is a highway...

I wanted to join in on Show us your Life over at Kelly's Korner, and today's theme was how you got engaged.

Ryan and I met in April 2000 a few days before his mom was in a terrible accident involving a drunk driver. At the time Ryan was in Marines and stationed 4 hours away, but when the accident happened he was given a Hardship Transfer to come help with his 4 younger siblings. During the first few months of our time together we went through a lot helping his family.

On Father's Day weekend in June 2000, Ryan and I went to my family reunion in Lake Park, GA. On the way home from the reunion Ryan stopped on the side of I-75 (it was dark), and asked me to get out of the truck and dance with him. The song God Gave Me You by Bryan White was playing. I thought he was insane, but did it anyway. So we slow danced on the side of I-75 as semis flew past us. As the song was ending, he told me to sit down in the truck, and he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. Before I told him yes, I said "GIVE ME MY RING!". Then of course I said YES!!!

So here we are 10 years later, heading to the same family reunion tomorrow for the first time in 10 years! Our lives have changed so much since then, and we have been blessed with 2 sweet miracles!